on Hey, Arizona! at 14:06 09/25/2008 as a reply on the comment by Le Deux Alpes

that's why many gay couples live upstate. It is so much more relaxed and easier to be how you want. I've lived in the East valley and West Valley of AZ and the west valley is way more laid back and not as racially and religiously political. As for the East valley, it is much more uptight because of the higly populated mormon communities. That is why Sedona and Payson are great places to retreat to and be how you want to be. I originally grew up in NY where you were pretty much accepted for how you were and for who you were. That wasn't always a good thing but at least people weren't being influenced by what one says is right and wrong. If this state can put up with all of the illegal immigrants (especially the ones that are okay with it because these people take the slave driver jobs) that steal our cars, and cause violence why isn't it ok for a man/man and women/women to get married? They are being descriminated against for really bad reasons

on Hey, Arizona! at 13:53 09/25/2008 as a reply on the comment by Fendi Larue

You are right to a point. You are also being a little over the top. AZ is a huge melting pot these days and I have many homosexual friends and times have defintely changed. If enough people voted against it, it could make a difference.you got my back perez

on Waiters/Waitresses: Head to Philly! at 13:28 08/28/2008 as a reply on the comment by Ms. McGillicutty

Sure a tip is optional, but who doesn't tip and feels good about it? I am speaking for all of those hard workers who give great service. From my experience, some people will tip exactly the same whether they get the best treatment or terrible treatment. I think that if you are giving crappy service get a new job. Instead of tipping them bad talk to a manager and complain. That is what I do. Also you have to think that sometimes your experience may be bad but is it the servers fault? Did they go back there and cook the food wrong? Was it their fault. Sometimes people blame their server because it is the only person they deal with.

on Waiters/Waitresses: Head to Philly! at 13:24 08/28/2008 as a reply on the comment by jazzmony

but did you ever think that they might be preparing the order for you behing the scenes?

on Waiters/Waitresses: Head to Philly! at 13:23 08/28/2008 as a reply on the comment by succulent

I will get a better job... when I finish school. It is the most functional while you are in school