"Kit and caboodle." Since you don't have an editor (though you should hire one; I'd be happy to volunteer), Google new phrases/words before you use them. Especially when you're trying to make someone else look stupid.
i'm confused that she chose this song as a single, so she obviously wants a lot people to hear the lyrics, but the video has nothing to do with the song. even if she didn't want to actually make it all about bush, this was just a weird way to go.
We know you're not a journalist or a real writer, so no one is expecting any brilliant prose here, but you can at least make a little effort with grammar and vocabulary. A widow is a woman. A widower is a man. Would you call a guy a waitress? A stewardess?
(And for future reference, in case you one day get this right, both men and women are "widowed." "Widowered" isn't a word).
(And for future reference, in case you one day get this right, both men and women are "widowed." "Widowered" isn't a word).