wow, it's amazing to me how biased you are to her. She was absolutely atrocious at the grammy's. There was nothing over the top about that performance at all. She can't sing, there was no choreography whatsoever and she looked like a child on that stage. She looked awkward and unprofessional.
"snogging" does NOT mean fucking. Snogging means kissing. Get your slang terms correct. I mean, what girl hasn't kissed another girl. I mean give me a break "I kissed a girl and I liked it" fan.
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Her lips are so big because they are swollen from the beating. It's her. Look at the tattoo on her shoulder.